If your kids haven’t mastered everything you or your curriculum set out for the year, should you have them repeat the grade?
If they scored as well as a much older child would on an end-of-year achievement test, can you have them skip a grade homeschooling? Should you?
Homeschooling allows for social vs. academic classifications
Homeschoolers don't need to skip or repeat grades: grade level is almost always more flexible with homeschooling than it is with public school. There may be some exceptions because of particular states’ laws or because you are choosing to homeschool through a charter school. Regular old homeschoolers typically don’t need to consider their kids repeating and skipping grades, especially before high school.
Here’s what homeschoolers do instead: if you need to, you can say your child is in a certain grade for social reasons (such as to move up with a group of acquaintances and friends in Scouts, Sunday School, or dance). Then, help them learn what is next for them academically, regardless of what “grade” you’re saying they’re in.
Homeschooling contains a wide range of "normal"
Homeschoolers do not have to fit into the "standard" student norm found in schools. Homeschoolers understand and embrace that there is a wide range of "normal" in homeschooling when it comes to learning, and they understand and embrace that grade levels were developed for schools.
Some families might have a child who is considered in third grade who is a beginning reader (first grade), more advanced in math (fourth grade), obsessive about learning history and science (sixth grade), and apparently gifted in art, music, or movement.
That child can still go into “fourth grade” for social reasons the next year, and as parents, you can still help them with reading, math, and other areas at the “level” where they are learning.
The same thing is true for skipping a grade: it’s not necessary to start calling a third grader from last year a fifth grader during this next year just because they are academically advanced.
Meet them where they are academically, so they’ll learn with less boredom. Seek out resources and strategies used for gifted students if you need to make more adjustments for your child who is advanced and showing signs of giftedness. Seek out alternative educational experiences and provide a rich learning environment if you decide to delay academics in some areas.
Some considerations about grade levels to keep in mind
- Remember that socially, your kiddo may not be as advanced as they are academically. Also, some advanced or gifted kids struggle socially no matter what age they are grouped with and tend to do better in clusters of families with children of many ages and kind adults who treat each person respectfully regardless of age.
- Curricula from different companies may be different from each other (and different from what is offered in school) in terms of skill level and content they expect to be mastered in different grades. The whole “grade level” sensibility is pretty arbitrary!
- If achievement tests seem to show your young child performing at a higher grade level, make sure you understand what that test result indicates. Many parents misunderstand and think this means their child is ready for high school level work. Instead, depending on the test, it might mean that your child did as well as the average 10th grader would on this test, which may not actually have any tenth grade content on it at all. See the difference?
- A final caveat about this is that many kids do plateau later, and you may find that middle school or high school is a stage when you might wish to “take back” that more advanced grade. Easier to deal with if you just keep meeting needs instead of making announcements about skipped grades.
Ask questions of your test provider and of experienced homeschoolers before you jump to a big announcement about skipping a grade.
And yes, there certainly could be exceptions for specific scenarios. You know your family best!
A popular speaker at homeschooling conferences, business groups, and parents’ groups, Jeanne Potts Faulconer homeschooled her three sons in North Carolina, Mississippi, and Virginia for twenty years. Holding her Master of Arts degree in Communication, Jeanne conducted portfolio evaluations for Virginia homeschoolers for evidence of progress for many years. Jeanne is a former college faculty member, former editor for several publications, news correspondent for WCVE, and former director of Brave Learner Home. She is the contributing editor for TheHomeSchoolMom newsletter and writes the popular Ask Jeanne column addressing homeschool parents' questions here at TheHomeSchoolMom.
My high schooler is struggling at his current school environment. A lot has been going on with the school this yr (publicized crime, parties, etc). He’s not as mature as we would hope and just had a behavioral issue for the first time at school. He does have a 3.0+. Would he be able to repeat his grade if homeschooled?
Hi Dawn,
Parents typically have control over what grade a child is in when their child is homeschooled. Therefore, you could withdraw him from school and then homeschool him at whatever grade level you think is appropriate (although having his buy-in is probably also important).
The tricky part is, if you want your child to repeat a grade while homeschooling a high school grade, but then later, he re-enters the public high school. The public high school will have to allow him to enroll, but they do not necessarily have to recognize or accept credit for work done at home while homeschooling.
See our article on transferring homeschool credits to public high school for more information about that.
If your teen does not return to high school, homeschooling through high school works well.
I can tell you are on your teen's side. Good luck!
Jeanne
My daughter is year 8. We are 3 weeks in to the last term for the year (7 weeks left of yr 8). She hasn't attended school for about 6 weeks now because of bullying. Can you start homeschooling at any time of the year and how does it work if I wanted to start now? Does homeschooling have year levels? Seeing as mainstream school only has 7 weeks to go, if I start home schooling now does she do yr 8 for another year? I'm confused how it works
In the U.S., you can start homeschooling in the middle of the year. Homeschooling is administrated by state, so you should check state resources to find the law that applies to your family.
The article explains most of the questions around grade level: homeschoolers often don't use grade level at all although some do. Some families mix and match, so a child ahead in math might use a fourth grade math curriculum but a second grade language arts curriculum.
If you just want to homeschool temporarily because of the bullying, then I take it your child would be returning to school for the next term. When your child returns to public school from homeschooling, grade placement is up to the school. How school officials would look at your child finishing the term as a homeschooler is not something we could predict. You would need to consult with school officials where you live and ask.
Also, a student who has been out of school may be seen as truant. Beginning to homeschool does not "erase" truancy concerns from previous non-attendance, so if that is an issue for your family, you will want to take steps to clear that up with the school. If paperwork is required to begin homeschooling where you live, you'll want to make sure you submit and keep a record of having turned in your paperwork.
I hope you're able to find a positive resolution.
Jeanne
Hello! My child is in 7th grade, but I would like them to go to 9th starting next August. I was thinking about getting her to go into online school, and finish 7th grade by march. Then, doing 8th grade and finishing in August. Is this even possible? Or is there a different way to do this? Thanks.
I just started homeschooling my daughter and the online format I use allows me to adjust where she is currently at with learning she is in 6th grade and doesn't know alot!! Like counting change, she doesn't know what each coin is called and doesn't know time or how to read a ⌚ I am working with her with all of that but her grade level is saying 3rd grade which is 3 years behind! No wonder she was struggling so hard in school 😢
If you're homeschooling, you can handle grade levels any way you want. You don't have to use the notion of grades at all, or you can skip ahead or back when those are wise decisions for your child.
That said, if you are thinking of doing online schooling and having your child enter public school, the decision of what grade they will be in at public school (after the online schooling) is up to the school.
Completing a grade in an online school is not at all a guarantee that a child will re-enter public school in the next grade. When a homeschooled child returns to public school, the school is in charge.
If you are talking about doing online school as a homeschooler and then continuing to homeschool for 9-12 rather than enter public school, you probably have more flexibility, depending on your state homeschooling law. Where I live, you could certainly use the schedule you mentioned and continue to homeschool grades 9-12 to graduation, without question.
Your state could have different requirements for homeschoolers.
A few other points I'd make: "all-in-one" online schooling does not work well for all students. Retention and engagement can be challenges. Pushing through a program faster than its intended pace could have negative effects on some kids.
Homeschoolers more commonly do not skip grades but offer learning at their kids' level, such as doing a higher grade or more challenging curriculum in math for kids who excel there and lower in language arts if they need more time in that subject (or vice versa), no matter what the child's "stated grade" actually is.
If you are talking about how she would fit into public school, you'll need to ask the public school.
Good luck!
Jeanne
My son he had to repeat kindergarten and he is now in 6th and attends Public school I was wondering if there were anything you can do to put him into 7th his right grade?
Hi Joyal - Public school is in charge of grades for their students, so you would have to discuss this with the administration at your son's school.
Hi there! My son just turned 5 and is supposed to enter kindergarten this year if ready. He’s a gifted child and taught himself colors, countin and how to read, and more around a year old (he has hyperlexia). I want to homeschool him but everything I find he can’t seem to keep his attention on. He already knows so much and I don’t know if I keep trying to reinforce what he’s know for so long or just keep moving “up” in grade level curriculum until he’s learning new material? Any advice you could give me? Because of his advancements he is more advanced academically than socially and as a first time home schooler I am unsure how to best approach this!
Thank you for reading!
Hi Michelle - Regarding grade level, it really doesn't matter in homeschooling. You should feel free to choose whichever resources meet your son's needs regardless of grade or age level. That said, there is rarely a good reason to actually change the grade level with the school division (if that is something you are required to submit in your state) - many kids level out as they get older, so filing with the school division as a different grade level can backfire later. You may want to look at these two posts by Jeanne (you can find them with the search bar):
-Ask Jeanne: What Curriculum for Homeschooling Active & Outdoorsy Boys?
-How to Choose the Best Homeschool Curriculum
We also have curriculum reviews (link in our main navigation menu) where parents tell what worked and what didn't work. That can be helpful in deciding if a specific resource might work for your son's needs.
I hope this helps!
Thank you for helping families to make this decision with your wise advice.
I have been a public school teacher for over 30 years as well as a homeschool mom and advocate. I have also operated a California private school satellite program or "umbrella" school for homeschoolers since 2002. I can tell you that the "Covid years" have been very hard on students and learning was extremely limited.
Since a nationwide do-over is not possible, if parents are on the fence about repeating a grade via homeschooling, this would certainly be the year to give it a try provided the student does not feel negatively toward the idea.
Repeating the 8th grade has become extremely popular even before Covid as less physically or emotionally mature students seek to take the year to catch-up with their peers. In these cases, the students are completely on board with the process and have had great experiences and success. Some would never have made onto a high school team without the extra growth year.
Thank you again for your great blogs. I refer families to your website often!
Im really considering letting my daughter homeschool bc she is being retained in the 8th grade for not passing ela and was dismissed from the summer academy program for a misunderstanding with a teacher. If it help my child get in the right grade then thats the way im going to go with her. Thank you so much for this information
Thank you for sharing your experience, Marguerite. You make some very good points!
Hello,
My son has been going to a private school since pre-k, he is going to 7th grade in the fall. Since he is advanced for his classes and the private school does not offer advanced classes, we decided to homeschooling him. Do you recommed any program/curriculum/ institution aprroved by [COMAR 13A.10.01.01F] in montgomery county MD or if you can provide a list we can choose from. Any information to help.
thank you
Hi Pauline - Our Curriculum Reviews section (link in the main navigation bar) has lots of helpful information written by homeschool parents who have used various curricula and programs. You might find that helpful when deciding on a program. Unfortunately we are unable to provide personal consultations or recommend specific programs of study since the variables involved are so specific to the individual circumstances.
Hello and great blog here. I live in Florida and my son is in 8th grade recently and passed the public school system. I have recently withdrawn him from public school and enrolled him to home school. I wanted to hold him back and have him retake 8th grade again since this past school year he was mostly in his public school system online. For high school he is going to private school but that will be after repeating 8th grade homeschooling with me. Is this possible?
Hi Maria - Your best answer will come from the private school he will be attending after repeating 8th grade. They control what will and will not transfer. Typically this is not an issue until high school credits are taken, but if you plan to have him take any classes while homeschooling that will count toward his graduation, it is up to the institution he will graduate from as to whether or not to count them.